pciture of Stacie Mahoe

    Sharing Softball Tips, Challenges, and Lessons Learned in a Softball Life!


    Looking for fastpitch softball tips and tricks? Here you'll find all kinds of thoughts, tips, and ideas from inside my softball brain. Enjoy!


Cool Softball Mom Shirt

by Stacie ~ September 3rd, 2010

Are you a softball mom and proud of it? Then you’ll love this shirt. I’m a softball mom and when I saw this shirt I thought it was really cool. I’d wear it!

Imagine wearing this to the park. I’m pretty sure people will be asking you where you got such an awesome shirt! And yes, those are rhinestones. :)

I’m not even the rhinestone type, but I’d still wear it.  I think it just adds to the fun of this shirt!  Anything fun AND softball related is ultra cool.

Get Your Softball Mom Shirt Here…
Softball Mom Shirt – $25

Choose Your Location
Size
Color

Safety Equipment and Masks Necessary in Softball

by Stacie ~ September 2nd, 2010

When facemasks on batting helmets came out, I was against them.  As a player, I sure would have resisted.  As a coach, I didn’t really care for the rule change much.  We had been “fine” without those masks on helmets for years.  Why do we need them now?

Then they came out with safety masks for fielders.  Seriously?  Most players that played during my time wouldn’t have been caught dead in one of those things.  Heck I gave my dad a hard time about wearing a mouth piece when I had braces and was playing 3rd base.

BUT, my views on safety equipment in softball have changed quite a bit in the past few years.  I have to admit that part of that is due to now being a parent of young softball players, the other part is due to the FACT that the game is not the same as it was when I was growing up.  A Wichita mother pretty much summed it up in this article by saying, “The game has changed.  The equipment has changed.”

The balls, the bats, the bat technology are all different now.  Everything is designed for “more offense” which also means the ball is getting hit farther, faster, and harder than ever before.  The infields are skinned instead of covered with grass (which used to slow the ball down).

Bottom line is the ball is traveling at player a lot faster than it was before which makes the game more dangerous than it was before.  Safety equipment is necessary!

Maybe it’s not needed for every player in every league in every situation, but there is most definitely a need for it for certain positions, players, and leagues. I really wouldn’t mind one bit if it became mandatory for corners and pitchers to wear a fielder’s safety mask like the GameFace.

In recent years, I’ve seen more and more players getting hit with the ball… Continue reading »

Why Did Patrick Murphy Pitch to Jenna Rodriguez?

by Stacie ~ August 31st, 2010


Why, oh why, oh why did Patrick Murphy pitch to Jenna Rodriguez?
I’m not trying to be mean, it’s a question that almost everyone was wondering about at one point or another (maybe even Pat Murphy himself!)

I know this is not the most timely time to ask this question, it all happened months ago, but it just happens to be one of the random thoughts still bouncing around in my head now that the major softball-playing part of the year has come and gone.

WHY did Pat Murphy opt to pitch to Jenna Rodriguez in the bottom of the last inning of the last game of the Tuscaloosa Super Regional 2010? She already had all the RBIs for the game including a 3-run home run in the 1st inning.  I honestly did not think Pat Murphy was going to pitch to her.

I was sitting in the car listening to the game unfold on the radio and they were talking about how Jenna Rodriguez would be up to bat soon and no way did I think that she would actually get a chance to hit.  But I was wrong. I didn’t mind being wrong, of course, because I was cheering for the University of Hawaii Rainbow Wahine.  But I have to admit, I was absolutely stunned that they pitched to her.

Even though I did realize that, by pitching around one hitter, you weren’t necessarily going to get to an “easier” one in that Rainbow Wahine lineup, I still didn’t think it would happen.  Jenna already showed that she was the one that had the mojo on that given day, in that given game, against that given pitcher.  Why not make another batter who, so far did not yet have that mojo going on that given day, in that given game, against that given pitcher, beat you in the bottom of the 7th with 2 out and the tying run on the bases?  After all, when you’re up by 1 and facing a team that beats you more with homerun power than anything else, it really doesn’t make much of a difference if you have just one runner on or if you have two runners on when that blast is hit -- either way you lose.

So why did Pat Murphy decide to pitch to Jenna Rodriguez?

This may not be something that we outsiders ever know the true answer too, but here are some things to consider…

1.  As a coach there is so much more that factors in to your decisions than what “outsiders” see.  (Anyone not INSIDE the team environment day in and day out is essentially an “outsider.”) It may seem very simple and very cut and dry from the outside looking in, but none of us truly know what what going on “inside” the team at that time.

2.  At the end of the day, if you can’t “trust your gut” as a coach, you’ll be second guessing every decision you make every day of the week.  That’s no way to live or coach.  Many times you just have to weigh the factors, take them into consideration, then go with your gut tells you based upon the information you have.

3.  If Pat Murphy was guilty of anything, it was probably believing in and having confidence in his team and his players.

Is this a major character or coaching flaw?  Some might say it is.

I don’t agree. I have been in situations and seen other coaches in situations that made this same “mistake.” We have a player in a clutch situation that we know has the ability to come through and we believe with absolute certainty that they will.  So…maybe we don’t make the call we “should” make.  Maybe we don’t make the “textbook” coaching decision that most coaches would make because we believe that this player, at this time, will come through and shine the way they have the potential to or the way that we have seen before.  Sometimes we’re right.  Sometimes we’re not.

The truth of the matter is, you’re NOT going to make every right call and every right decision as a coach.  No matter how hard you try, no matter how great a coach you are (and I do believe that Patrick Murphy is one of the best), it’s just the nature of coaching. Some you’ll win, some you won’t.

As far as I’m concerned, I’d much rather make that “mistake” or that “wrong” call based upon the fact that I believed in and had confidence in my team, rather than because I was playing it safe or because I doubted or didn’t believe in my players and my team.

If, as coaches, we are undoubtedly going to win-some-lose-some anyway and there is no way we are going to make every right call, I at least want to know that my “wrong” calls were made based upon something I believe in and can live with.

In case you’ve never seen it (or want to watch it again) here’s the video from the bottom of that last inning…