Often times, young men and women think that if they feel fear or worry or doubt or uncertainty, then that must mean they can’t do it or aren’t good enough to do it or “should” lower their aim. What if I can’t do this? What if I fail? What if I’m not good enough? These …
They say comparison is the thief of joy. Most agree that comparing yourself to others isn’t helpful. At the same time, most will say, “I only compare myself to me” or “as long as I’m better than I used to be, that’s all that matters.” I’m going to suggest that you stop comparing. Period. Don’t …
Contrary to what people seem to think, “I don’t know” is a valid response. Just don’t let it be a default, or cop out, answer that keeps you stuck or shuts you down from even trying to do, achieve, be, create, have something you really want to go after. As a parent, as a coach, you’re …
